The Science Behind…

King Henry VIII and His Wives’ Miscarriages…

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Science has come along way in the last centuries, it was able to solve many mysteries which were left unsolved for decades. With advances in technology, DNA analysis, and a better understanding of medical symptoms it’s no surprise that Catherine of Aragon who doctors said had ‘a black patch on her heart.’ died of cancer, a disease not understood at that time but recognized easily today. Technologies and advancements in science shed light on a lot of things dismissed or not understood by Tudor Era England, including the ailments of Henry VIII and the miscarriages of his wives, Catherine and Anne (the latter which he famously had executed after three short years of marriage and nearly eight of courtship).

So what caused a monarch who was basically the Leonardo DiCaprio of his day when he was younger often described as charismatic, eye-catching and even caring, for a member of the Royal family, to be remembered in a tainted more grim illustration of a gluttonous, impaired, selfish ruler with a habit of executing wives on false charges of adultery?

Research which was conducted in 2011 by bio archaeologist Catrina Banks Whitley while still a graduate student at Southern Methodist University and anthropologist Kyra Kramer, claim a Kell antigen blood disorder was a reason for the numerous miscarriages Henry’s wives suffered often late in pregnancy.

So what does that mean?  A Kell negative woman (such as Anne) who has multiple pregnancies with a Kell positive man (Henry VIII) can produce a healthy, Kell positive child in a first pregnancy (Elizabeth is a prime example of this) but the antibodies she produces during that first pregnancy will cross the placenta and attack a Kell positive fetus in any follow-up pregnancies.

As they write in The Historical Journal and also on the popular Tudor website The Anne Boleyn Files, the researchers found a pattern between “the Kell blood group incompatibility being consistent with the pregnancies of Henry’s first two wives, Catherine of Aragon and Anne Boleyn.” If Henry also suffered from McLeod syndrome, a genetic disorder specific to the Kell blood group, it would finally provide an explanation for his shift in both physical form and personality from handsome and agreeable to lackluster and tyrannical . Whitley and Kramer having  “identified the causal medical condition underlying Henry’s reproductive problems and psychological deterioration,” may be the answer to an age-old myth notorious to the time that the LORD was angry with the Monarch for his wife choice .

Many people, even those with minimal historical background, know that Henry married six women, two of whom he famously executed, and broke England’s ties with the Catholic Church – all in pursuit of a marital union that would produce a male heir. His brief, shining moment of glory with the birth of his son Edward was short-lived when the sickly prince died before he even reached his sixteenth birthday. In college, as a history major, most Historians have long debated theories of illness and injury that might explain the physical deterioration and frightening, tyrannical behavior that he began to display after his 40th birthday but not so much to the unsuccessful pregnancies of his wives in an age of newly developing medical care coupled with poor nutrition and hygiene.

As a Kell positive father, if the authors are correct, that means Henry WAS in fact the cause behind Anne and Catherine’s inability to bear a healthy infant after the first Kell negative pregnancy. Which is exactly the same circumstances experienced with women who had multiple pregnancies by Henry. Some may be aware of Henry’s illegitimate son, Henry Fitzroy, by his mistress Elizabeth Blout this perfectly healthy male birth was the ruler that Henry used to measure and conclude that the fault was of the women NOT the monarch, for the failed births. This is not an accurate measuring stick, however, since Bessie Blout only had one pregnancy by Henry. Also, interestingly enough, most people who are within this blood disorder group are Kell negative, so they experience little to no reproductive issues, it is only with the rare Kell positive father found in Henry VIII that these reproductive issues manifest.

I’d like to stress the emphasis the authors put on fetal mortality being ‘the Kell legacy, not infertility’. Henry was nearly 18 when he married the 23-year-old Catherine of Aragon, widow of his older brother Arthur (but never consummated). Looking at their pregnancies: the first daughter, a girl, was stillborn; the second child, a boy, lived only 52 days and four other confirmed pregnancies followed during the marriage it was documented that three were either stillborn or died shortly after birth. Enter Mary, their only surviving daughter who would eventually be crowned the fourth Monarch in the Tudor dynasty.

The exact number of miscarriages had by Henry’s wives and even less documented mistress is difficult for any historian  to determine, especially when we can’t just hop in a time machine and see for ourselves. Most agree Henry’s wives had a total of at least 11 and possibly 13 or more pregnancies. Only four of the eleven known pregnancies survived infancy. Whitley and Kramer call the high rate of random late-term miscarriages and stillbirths suffered by Henry’s first two queens “an atypical reproductive pattern” because, even in an age of high child mortality, most women carried their pregnancies to term during that time, and even in cases where death was imminent, their infants usually lived long enough to be christened.

The authors of this study explain that if as a potentially Kell positive father, each time Henry impregnated the Kell negative mother, such as Catherine, Anne, or Jane, each pregnancy had from the jump a 50-50 chance of creating Kell positive fetus.  So in layman’s terms this means the first pregnancy usually carries to term and produces a healthy infant, even if the infant is Kell gene positive and the mother is Kell negative. The problem comes with the mother’s following Kell positive pregnancies after the first birth which are at risk because the mother’s antibodies will literally attack the Kell positive fetus as a foreign body, thus causing miscarriage or still-birth. Any baby that is Kell negative will not be attacked by the mother’s antibodies and will carry to term if otherwise healthy. “Although the fact that Henry and Catherine of Aragon’s firstborn did not survive is somewhat atypical, it is possible that some cases of Kell sensitization affect even the first pregnancy,” Kramer notes.

The survival of Mary, the fifth pregnancy for Catherine of Aragon, fits the Kell scenario if Mary inherited the recessive Kell gene from Henry, resulting in a healthy infant. Anne Boleyn’s pregnancies were a textbook example of Kell with a healthy first child, Queen Elizabeth, and subsequent late-term miscarriages two boys which proved to be the final undoing to her relationship with Henry. Jane Seymour had only Edward before her death, but the pattern of a healthy firstborn also is consistent with a Kell positive father, had Jane survived her pregnancy with Edward it is likely, in Kramer’s opinion, we would have seen her miscarry as well in the pregnancies which followed Edward’s birth.

Science was also able to pinpoint several of Henry’s male maternal relatives which followed the Kell positive reproductive pattern. The authors claim to have “traced the possible transmission of the Kell positive gene from Jacquetta of Luxembourg, the king’s maternal great-grandmother,” suggesting the genetic presence of the Kell phenotype within the family.

My thoughts on reading the study conducted by Kramer and Whitley, seem to be a shining example of how advancements in science and medicine can reveal very human elements in otherwise larger than life (no pun intended considering Henry was said to have weighed close to 400 pounds at his death) historical figure. I believe that these findings are very consistent with the patterns we’ve seen documented with the pregnancies of Catherine and Anne. It was much easier to believe that God was displeased with Henry during that time, or his wife was an adulterous witch (Anne) or he was a sinner for laying with his brother’s wife (Catherine), than to explain what actually by today’s standards was a genetic blood disorder but was unavailable to diagnose at that time.

Do you believe Henry VIII was Kell positive? Leave a comment below explaining your thoughts on this topic.

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

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Life Hack Test #2

A DIY Teeth Whitener

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What’s the first thing people notice about you when you shake their hand? Chances are if your smile is not the first thing they notice it is ONE of the first things they notice. Did you know habits like smoking, excessive coffee drinking, and even inconsistent dental hygiene habits like forgetting to floss can do a number on your teeth? With brands like Colgate Whitening Strips and other supposed whiteners it’s easy to just buy and go, however, what if I told you that you don’t need to buy the store brand to get instantly whiter teeth?

That’s what this life hack I found on Pinterest proposes and with such a easy shopping list and the things I needed to test it already in my house, I thought, why not?  So off we go back to Brittany’s Life Hack Lab to test out the theory that mixing baking soda with a mashed up strawberry will give me whiter teeth.

Hypothesis: Mixing a strawberry with half a teaspoon of baking soda will create a paste that will whiten your teeth when left to sit for 5 minutes.

Theory 1: I will notice minimal changes but will need to do this consistently to see real results.

Theory 2: Don’t even bother! It doesn’t do what it claims for all the hype it received on social media.

Theory 3: It worked! Move over Colgate there’s a new sheriff in town!

So now with all our possible outcomes laid out, let’s go over what you’ll need:

*1/2 Teaspoon of baking soda.

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* A Strawberry Mashed up.

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* A Toothbrush to spread the paste on your teeth.

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* A timer set for 5 minutes.

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The mixture tastes like a salty fruity combination so its not too hard to tolerate for 5 minutes, I’m not sure I mashed my strawberry enough either so that may affect the overall outcome of your results, but I definitely feel this paste is doing something, especially along my gum line where it’s stinging just a little but nothing intolerable.

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What your mixture will look like.

 

 

Well 10 seconds left, let’s wash this off!

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Don’t mind my goofy face 😛

 

You do this by using your toothbrush and regular toothpaste, to brush your teeth. And the results? I found my teeth were whiter although I never really had horribly stained teeth to begin with but I would recommend it if you’re looking for a sure fire way to gradually whiten your teeth to add it into your evening brushing regiment. The hack itself explains that this is because Strawberries contain malic acid which removes stains from teeth. Is this a miracle solution that will reverse years of stains and damage to your teeth? Yes and no, yes in a sense that  I feel it does and will work but not if you’re looking for instant results you’ll be sorely disappointed. I am going to personally add this hack into my evening brushing routine and check back in for an update next month to post my final verdict.

I CAN honestly say though that my teeth feel cleaner (like dentist clean) and look shiner in addition to a bit whiter. I am also prone to getting minimal plaque build up by the gum line no matter how much I brush (it’s genetic not because of lack of brushing and flossing) and I did notice that the strawberry/baking soda paste got rid of it quite nicely. Therefore, for now I got to go with Hypothesis 1, I noticed minimal changes and will be doing this consistently to give you the scoop of whether it’s worth your time or not.

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Is there a life hack you’ve read that you want me to put to the test? Leave a comment below and I’ll get back to you since I do love hearing from all of you! Happy Whitening!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

Top 5…

TV Dads…

The only thing better than your own Father is the Fathers we love through TV. This post will be different in a sense that instead of counting down, we will be working our way down the list of famous TV Dad’s I thought were epic in their own right.

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1. Red Forman– The symbol of tough parenting, whether it’s telling Eric to do a chore, get job or that’s he’s going to put his foot in-well you know where if you watched That 70’s Show-Red represents the no nonsense, take charge parent who puts his family first even if it doesn’t make him the most popular person in his household. Red also works just hard as his mouth runs to create a good life for Laurie (where’d she go anyway?), Eric, and Kitty, which harkens back to a simpler time where the man provided for his family. Red, although not the most affectionate person, seems to always be willing to make a situation right for his wife Kitty-just stay away from him when he does! Red is Eric’s harshest critic, however, as seen in the episode ‘Eric Gets Suspended’ he threatens Bob who was calling Eric a bad influence on Donna. When watching ‘That 70’s Show’ as a kid, you might think, ‘my God Red! Why do you got to be so tough?’ but as you watch as an adult and you see the stupid things Eric does (whether Red catches him or not) you might say to yourself “I’d put my foot in his-well you know where!-too!”

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2.Burt Chance– The father of Jimmy Chance and husband to Virginia Chance on the TV show ‘Raising Hope’.  Burt is the youngest father on the list, being only seventeen when he became a father to Jimmy and thirty-eight when the show started.  He tends to be more immature than the rest of the fathers on the list, but beneath that is a big heart of love and fatherly advice.  For example, on the episode ‘Sheer Madness’ he warns Jimmy about holding in gas, being that you can only squeeze that little muscle so many times and you don’t want to wear it out when your in your twenties.  As noted previously, Burt was only 17 when he had Jimmy, although he and Virginia didn’t have a lot of money and couldn’t always give Jimmy the best things, you can clearly see they raised him with the most important thing a child needs and that’s love.  Burt is the owner of a small landscape company where he employs his son Jimmy and the two work as a father son team, just don’t let him see you peeing in the bushes cause he’ll push you in.  In the episode ‘The Sniffles’, Burt can not afford to provide health insurance for Jimmy and Hope, Jimmy wants to get a part time job to pay for it, but Burt doesn’t want him to.  You later find out Burt was working a second job for his rival landscape company to be able to provide the insurance for Jimmy and Hope, he explains to Jimmy that’s he feels like it should always be his job to provide for him and his granddaughter Hope, not just as his boss, but as his father.  He didn’t even want the insurance for himself, but it was something Jimmy wanted, this just shows how far and how low Burt was willing to go for his son.

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3. Homer Simpson– Homer Simpson of ‘The Simpsons’ is an example of parenting to the extreme. Homer represents what every parent might sometimes wish they could do or perhaps even do if the situation could be solved in thirty minutes. Such as buying your daughter a pony, getting many different jobs each day, or just saying “Why you little-” to the jerk of a son. Despite Homer’s many flaws in parenting, he does show genuine care for his children. Such as being truly ashamed when he embarrasses them, showing support for what they want to do, and really tried to be a better Father than his Father, Abe was to him. Another example would be when Maggie was born, Homer never wanted his third child when his wife Marge was pregnant with her because it forced him to go back to work at the soul-crushing Power plant, however, when Maggie was born Homer loved her instantly. When Bart and Lisa ask why there are no pictures of Maggie in the house, Homer simply replies “I keep them where I need cheering up the most” and you see that is at the Power Plant where his work area is full of Maggie’s pictures.

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4.Carl Winslow- Carl is the Father of Ed, Laura, Judy (where did Judy go after three seasons?) and the husband to Harriet Winslow on the show ‘Family Matters’. He later even becomes an adoptive Father to 3J as well. Carl, although short tempered, is a very humble and kind person which reflects in his parenting. Carl, out of all the Fathers on this list, seems to be the right balance between firm and lenient. You can always see that he does everything out of love for his family, despite that fact that he often clashes with his son Eddy, due to the latter’s rebellious nature, he is always there to help his son out and be supportive of his decisions. Carl works as a police officer and by the end of the show’s run works his way up to being Captain. He does this by simply being good at his job, working hard, regardless of other’s being promoted before him by being suck-ups, Carl does not want to do that for a higher position, instead wanting to be viewed as the best man for the job. Steve Urkel, the bane of Carl’s existence, constantly annoys him and costs him plenty of money in damages to the family home over the years. Despite this, Carl develops a fondness for Steve as the show progresses and is always there to back him up. Becoming a father-figure to Steve is very endearing for the viewers to watch, especially when Carl goes to parents day at Steve’s college because he knew it would mean a lot to the young man.

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5. Dan Conner- Dan Conner portrayed so epically by John Goodman, is the epitome of an easy-going Father on the 90’s classic ‘Roseanne’. Although is not a strict parent by any means, his children (Becky, Darlene and DJ) know that if they make him angry, they’ve really done it! Dan always shows support for everybody in his family, despite not always agreeing with what they do, such as both Becky and Darlene getting married young, he always lends a helping hand regardless if it isn’t up to his standards. What Dan really represents is the true blue collar Father who dealt with real issues during the show and didn’t have a perfect fairy-tale home, job or what most “TV Fathers” had. Dan handled each situation highlighted each week with humility and perseverance unique to his own Fathering ability. What makes Dan different from all the other Fathers is the undeniable chemistry he and Roseanne had on TV, you truly believed and hoped the best in these two lovable characters. Dan’s love is what really makes Roseanne’s character for the simple fact that she, although very abrasive, can be equally as lovable too.

Who were your Top Five TV Dads? Leave a comment below as I love hearing from you!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

My Thoughts…

On Harry Potter and The Cursed Child…

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I remember going to the midnight viewing of ‘Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix’ with my good friend Shannon B. She and I dressed as Gryffindor and Slytherin students respectively with our hair, make-up and outfits looking like we were fresh off the Hogwarts express. We relished in the stares we received from other movie-goers and saluted fans we saw which were as passionate as us. For me, Harry Potter wasn’t just my childhood, it was my adolescence and coming of age all wrapped into one. Harry, Ron and Hermione were my friends that I could crack open a book and escape with when I felt like nobody understood me. Hogwarts and the Wizarding World which it encompassed welcomed me when I felt many did not, in it I found a sense of belonging that I still feel nearly two decades later. As an avid Fan Fiction writer, I wrote one of the most beloved Draco Malfoy love stories of all time at the age of thirteen that I revisited and re-wrote in my early twenties to compliment the novel. I’m not telling you these facts to tell you how obsessed with Harry Potter I am, I’m writing them here on my blog to show you just how much this franchise inspired me both as a writer and a person. Which is why when J.K. Rowling announced the release of the script to “Harry Potter and the Cursed Child” co-written by Jack Thorne and John Tiffany, calling it:’the 8th story, 19 years later’ , I NEEDED to get my grubby Pureblood hands on it.

Now, before I get into my thoughts on ‘The Cursed Child’ I’m going to give you a curtesy  disclaimer: This post contains spoilers, therefore, read at your own risk. Some fans love it, some fans hate it, the feelings regarding this script will vary from blog to blog. I’ve read and sympathized with both arguments for and against it being considered a canon. My feelings, however, cannot be summed up in regards to love or hate for this script but rather mixed feelings. I do feel that if J.K. Rowling accepts these events which take place in this script as canon I must accept it too no matter how hard some elements are to embrace.

THE GOOD:

*Evolved relationships between characters which showed maturity and growth. I adore the fact that we get to see Harry, Ron, Hermione and even Draco as parents who are struggling with their own pasts and trying to navigate parenthood.

*Being able to apparate back into the magical world of Harry Potter. It was pretty brilliant to find myself back in some familiar places like Hogwarts, The Ministry of Magic, and The Triwizard Tournment.

*Scorpius Malfoy: I love how he’s written and I love how quirky and awkward he is.

*Hermione Granger-Weasley is your new Minister of Magic. This is by far my most favorite thing about this script, seeing Hermione be in charge of the entire Wizarding World is so becoming of her and fitting for her character.

 

THE BAD:

*Many of the plot points are bit unrealistic (even for the most outlandish Fan Fiction Readers). Potentially deadly time turners being held by Theodore Nott, going back in time to change the fate of Cedric Diggory, Harry be a jerk to McGonagall and speaking to her in her office the way he had, Delphi Diggory? The confusing plot twists and holes read like horribly written Fan Fiction.

*Jack Thorne crammed in as many references to the original series to connect the classics to this new story. As a longtime fan this came off a bit like someone who tries too hard.

* The play format lacked the same magic captured in the original books; while one can say J.K. didn’t write it, she still put her name and seal of approval on it, I still struggle with approving it. I feel like the lack of details left me with more questions than answers which I do hope Rowling will address on Pottermore.

*We still didn’t really get to know Astoria Malfoy before they killed her off. While we know little things which Scorpius shares about her-(her belief that sweets are the ticket to making new friends, and she was not a Death Eater)-we don’t know too much about her backstory and what experiences shaped her to have a great deal of humility or even fall in love with Draco in the first place.

 

THE UGLY:

*It read like bad Fan Fiction, seriously, I’ve wrote way better plots than Jack Thorne managed to cook up.

*That one alternate universe where Cedric, so humiliated by failing the Second Task of the Triwizard Tournament, becomes a Death Eater and murders Neville. Yep, you read that right, Cedric murders Neville. Cedric would never do that or be that way, he was just too good of a guy and I REFUSE to believe that.

*Bellatrix and Voldemort apparently had enough downtime to have a baby, who grows up so desperate to know her homicidal maniac Father that she tricks Albus and Scorpius into fudging up Cedric’s tasks and “spare him” so that Voldemort can re-emerge.

*Cursed Child jumped from one idea to the next so quickly it left little time for reflection or thought. Some might chalk this up to the fact that it is the script for a play and not a novel, but I’ve read plays with much more details than this such as anything written by Andrew Lloyd Webber or William Shakespeare.

*Who drops a bombshell like what I mentioned above regarding Bellatrix and Voldemort without more details? Really? Who does that?

FINAL THOUGHTS:

Harry Potter and the Cursed Child had the potential to be a really good novel, including a set-up which could have left an open-ended potential for J.K. Rowling to return to IF she ever wanted to explore the Potterverse through the eyes of Scorpius and Albus.

The introduction of Delphani Diggory as the spawn of both Bellatrix Lestrange and Lord Voldemort has potential to be the new advisory in a novel but falls short in the play. Her defeat is both anti-climatic and almost too easy to be taken seriously. I found myself feeling like “that’s it?” after they hauled her off to Azkaban. I simply find it much too impossible that the child of one of the darkest witches and wizards of all time was so easily thwarted by a pair of eleven-year olds and their overworked Ministry parents.

Ultimately, I would recommend this play for every Potterhead to read just because the potential is there and could inspire some seriously epic Fan Fiction to a writer who wants to take the time to explore the details left out of the script. However, if you’re a Potterhead looking to recapture the magic you received from the last seven books, you may want to hold off.

Did you read Harry Potter and the Cursed Child? Leave your thoughts in a comment below as I love hearing from you!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

 

DIY Party Lanterns…

…So easy children can do it!

I love Summertime, it’s a prime time for parties, gatherings, and BBQs some of which stretch long into the night. Some of my most fond memories growing up were night swimming in my parents’ large in-ground pool, swimming up to the large light and slapping the water to make gold bubbles, I also remember tiki torches lighting up the night. While I do not have a pool at my home or a large budget with bills to pay, when I do someday get my pool I’ll need atmosphere for parties and such. Yes, I could go out to Home Depot to invest in some tiki torches perfect for a night swim accent, but why do that when I could also create some homemade accent lanterns without breaking the bank?  The materials you need are simple but perhaps more simple then that is how to put them together.

What you will need:

 

Glow Sticks- We used the Bulk Play Glow Wrapped Mega Glow Stick available at DollarTree for $1.00.
You can find them here:https://www.dollartree.com/toys/glow-in-the-dark-toys/Play-Glow-Wrapped-Mega-Glow-Sticks-12-/629c632c632p342886/index.pro?method=search

White Balloons- We used the Bulk White Latex Balloons, 12″ 15 CT, packs also available at DollarTree for $1.00
You can find them here: https://www.dollartree.com/party-supplies/Shop-By-Color/White-Party-Supplies/12-White-Latex-Balloons-15-ct-Packs/574c862c675p338203/index.pro?method=search

Estimated Price: $2.00

1. First we bought some white balloons (seen above) and I blew them up while Tom cracked some glow sticks (also pictured above) so they glowed.

2. We then stuck two glow sticks inside each balloon. Note: this WILL make your balloon deflate a bit, so be prepared to blow it up a bit afterwards and don’t forget to tie a knot.

Tada! You’re Done! They glowed for approximately 6 hours, while we sat on the patio hosting our friends this evening and the best part was they were only $2.00 to purchase and put together! Would you or have you tried this simple DIY project? Leave a comment below, I love hearing from you!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany
xoxo

Life Hack Test #1…

…Blood stains can be removed by Hydrogen Peroxide

Okay, so I love life hacks probably more than your average person, originally when I set out to create this blog it was going to be solely me testing out life hacks to either boost or diminish credibility to them. However, I decided the variety is always best when it comes to blogging, especially with so many competitors out there. I’ll often stumble across on Pinterest helpful tips and tricks which seem too good to be true. Some of these tricks I’ve found work, others I’ve found may work under certain circumstances but might not always ring true.
One particular life hack which caught my eye while I struggled with writer’s block this week was that hydrogen peroxide could remove blood stains. Now it just so happens I have some blood stained pants (pre washed of course, but stained nonetheless) and some hydrogen peroxide lying around my house. It must be noted that this hack is not very specific about how soon after your clothing becomes stained you need to apply the hydrogen peroxide so like any good scientist, I must first perform a hypothesis:
Hypothesis: If I apply hydrogen peroxide to my blood stained pants the peroxide will remove the offending stain from my pants and make them like new.
Theory 1: The stain is old and having gone through a cycle of wash and dry will remain due to the lack of action upon first receiving the stain.
Theory 2: The peroxide when applied to a fresh stain will help lift the blood for the washer/dryer but not remove it.
Theory 3. It works!
Now that I’ve proposed the hypothesis and three possible outcome theories I will tell you what you need:
1. An article of blood stained clothing FREE thanks to your recklessness.
2. Hydrogen Peroxide which could be picked up at your local dollar store for $1.00
Total Expenses: $1.00
Here’s What I did…
 
1. Propped the offending pair of pants with the dried stain against my bathroom sink. You can see what I’m working with in the picture below.
 
 
2. I doused the stain in Hydrogen Peroxide and let it sit for 5 minutes.
 
 
3. FIRST I tried rubbing the stain out but as you can see below I don’t think this helped a whole lot.
 
 
 
 
4. NEXT I tried something different, after re-soaking the stain, I took out your standard blow dryer and applied heat directly onto the stain.
 
 

5. Voila! While the stain isn’t completely gone, it’s nearly invisible to the naked eye and after a few more repeats of steps 1-4 it was starting to vanish.


 
My verdict: While this life hack DOES work, I feel that it would have worked even better or removed it completely with minimal repetition if done immediately after receiving the stain in question.
Have you or will you try this life hack next time you find a blood stain on your clothes? Leave a comment below discussing your thoughts and suggestions, I love hearing from you!
Love you. Mean it.
Brittany
xoxo

My Thoughts…

…The WWE Brand Split

It’s Shane’s Smackdown Live  vs. Stephanie’s RAW Live on USA Network.

So whether you’ve been watching the WWE since the early 90’s or are new to the viewership, unless you’re living under a rock, you’ve heard of the impending brand split and draft. What does this mean for viewers? You can now catch your favorite superstars LIVE on Monday night RAW OR Tuesday night Smackdown but what this means for the roster is an entirely different matter completely. The roster will be split in a draft held this Tuesday night on Smackdown and while the brand split has caused a lot of confusion among fans, here is a list of why I think it was a good move.

 

1. It gives Superstars like Becky Lynch, Dean Ambrose, Bray Wyatt and AJ Styles a chance to shine without being overshadowed all the time. While Roman Reigns and Seth Rollins can potentially continue their rivalry on RAW this leaves room for a possible Dean Ambrose feud where AJ Styles can become a top challenger on Smackdown. This would give him some much-needed exposure and come up I think he’s earned. This is beneficial to the women as well, Becky and Natalya can also take their rivalry to the next level without being held back by the Sasha Banks and (Current Women’s Champion) Charlotte, feud.

2. It gives you a competitive feel in the wake of siblings Shane and Stephanie McMahon trying to one-up each other on back-to-back nights for ratings. Vince’s offspring have a very convincing front of hating each other’s guts, what better way for them to try to prove to Daddy dearest that one deserves to inherit the company over the other than TWO LIVE shows on Monday and Tuesday night which give viewers insight to how the WWE would be run under the control of either of them.

3. Better utilization of the “jobber” talent to have the chance to become something more than “jobbers”. It has been mentioned in quite a few blogs I’ve skimmed through regarding this topic but I got to bring up Cody Rhodes. Why? He is the very talented and very under utilized son of legend Dusty Rhodes and brother to Goldust.  Cody, or Stardust, as he shamefully came to be known at towards the end of his career left due to the feeling that he wasn’t being used to the best of his abilities, and we don’t blame you one bit for that Cody the gimmick was stale and you were reduced to being a “jobber” consecutively. Having two separate brands will allow the currently under utilized talent to be shown more on TV. It also allows more screen time for guys like Dolph Ziggler and Zack Ryder who having a really hard time making an impact on the main roster. I mean, remember the days when Dolph was actually a guy to contend with? Too bad he was so good that even Lana wanted to kiss him when Rusev shunned her? Those days seem so far away when you see what he’s been reduced to now. A brand split could definitely breathe some much-needed life back into his career.

4. The potential bring back of the old Gold Championship belt. Okay follow me for a second, lets say Rollins is drafted to Stephanie’s RAW while Ambrose is drafted to Shane’s Smackdown. Now let’s also imagine during Battleground when The Shield former members face off once and for all, Dean Ambrose retains. The storyline could this open up for the furious Stephanie McMahon is limitless. The possibilities are endless because so ruthless is she that I can totally see her demanding a belt be brought back for her champion Seth Rollins to try to win while the current belt stays with Smackdown. She’ll get it too, if only because she’ll whine that it’s not fair for RAW to not have a belt.

So there you have it, my thoughts on four potentially good outcomes of the 2016 WWE Brand Split. One final note, to those of you who are disappointed to see certain Superstars on different shows REMEMBER it’s a scripted show “trades” and “free agency” are always possible, no one is set in stone to not face each other. You can catch WWE Live on Monday and Tuesday Nights 8 PM Eastern Standard Time.
Leave your comments discussing your thoughts on the subject below, I’d love to hear from you.

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

An Open Letter To My Best Friend…

I love you more than you’ll ever know…

My Best Friend, Jen and I

Dear Jennifer (aka. JGo, Ethel, and Hugh)

 

Some people come into our lives and barely leave a trace, others leave a string of footprints etched upon our hearts, letting us know they are with us every step we take.

You, my dearest friend, have been stamping all over my heart since the day we met. 22 years ago, your 5-year-old self sat next to me on the bus ride to kindergarten and you complimented my floral print dress. It’s like the awesomeness in little you understood the vanity in little me and I immediately complimented your shoes. I mean, who wouldn’t have wanted to be best friends with someone with white pattern leather shoes? The answer was “thank you!”, and with a smile on your cherub-like face, you pushed me under your protective wing and haven’t let go of me since.

As the years passed by, our love for each other grew. You weren’t just a friend, you were the sister I never had, my soul mate and the reason my days were filled with happiness, love and laughter. Even when the sun stopped shining, we’d get out there, splash in the deepest of puddles and make light of any situation life threw our way. We’d smoke candy cigarettes on the corner of Third and Hannibal only to hear my Dad shout at us “You look like a bunch of idiots with those things hanging out your mouth!” We didn’t care, we did things our way because together we were stronger, braver and fairly invincible!

Or so we thought…

Life, sometimes it pulls the rug from under our feet. Suddenly, we find ourselves broken and unable to get back up. When I thought all hope had gone, you were always there to sweep me off of my feet, dust me down and tell me everything is going to be okay. When everyone else had left the room, you were the only one still cheering and giving me that little piece of hope to carry on.

That’s what real friends do. They are the glue that holds us together when we feel like we are falling apart. They are the anchor to keep us grounded when life has a tendency to blow us away. They are the wind beneath our wings, keeping us going when we feel like giving up.

 

Thank you for being a true friend. For sticking by me, for letting me sob into your shoulder, for allowing me to play that same old tiresome record you’ve heard a trillion times before. Thank you for letting me pour my heart out, for listening and for not just telling me what I want to hear. Thank you for loving me when no one else would. Thank you for staying constant in a world full of change and chaos. And thank you for just being there when I need you.

 

It’s hard to put it into words just how much you mean to me, because words will never be enough. I know my life wouldn’t be the same without you. We have walked so far, laughed so hard, and cried a sea of tears together. We have climbed each other’s highest peaks, and travelled through the darkest of valleys. You held my hand when moments before I walked down the aisle I was having a mini panic attack, and I held yours when you experienced your first heartbreak. You wiped my tears when my Grammy was dying, and I wiped yours when your father did die, he was like my second Dad too . You raised me up when life had beat me to the ground, and I spurred you on during moments of weakness.

 

With you by my side the world is a better place. The sun shines a little bit brighter, my smile grows a little bit wider, and in that moment, my problems are no more. You are the most beautiful person, inside and out. You are selfless, compassionate and wise beyond your years. I truly believe I hit friendship gold when you skipped into my life and filled my days with laughter, happy tears and enchantment.

 

You have not only been my rock, my anchor, my tear catching shoulder to cry upon, but you have also taught me many things in life.

You taught me that friends never judge each other no matter what. When you walked in on me belting out a Mariah Carey classic – eyes closed, hands clenched and lost in the music – you didn’t judge me. You must have been laughing so hard inside, but you managed to keep a straight face and even told me I sounded great. This was a lie – I was way off-key. I knew it, you knew it, and the neighbors 5 doors down knew it!

 

You taught me to forgive. I have this scene playing out in my head. It was summer, and Laura invited everyone but me to her house for a pool party, and you totally lied on the phone to me that you had chores to do when you actually went. What ensued was the worst argument we ever had yet I still remember the words you said so small on the other end of the phone, “I’m sorry Britt, I’m not perfect, I’m only human”. You were right, so naturally forgiveness and a tearful bike ride to your house was in order so we could hug it out.

You weren’t afraid to give me tough love when I needed it. During my darkest days you were the light that guided my way. After my Grammy died and Tom couldn’t get me out of bed to eat I still remember you coming over, picking me out an outfit and dragging Tom and I both in tow out to a diner. You ordered my favorite food, and said “I know you’re scared of a life without your Grammy…but you can’t shut people out. You have to eat, get dressed and try to smile each day even when you don’t feel like it.” I ate and felt like a weight had been lifted at once from my shoulder. I owe that to you, my friend!

 

You taught me to always be truthful. Do I look good in this dress? A question that many a friend will ask, and yet, will not receive the honest answer. If my dress is a little on the see-through side, you’ll be the first to let me know. If I’m dancing away and experience a code nip-slip, you’ll be the first person to give me the wink alert. If my bronzer looks more orangutan than summer tan, you’ll say “Hey Breezy, you look like an Ompaa Loompa!” 

 

You taught me that it’s okay to fight. I’m not talking boxing gloves and body slamming, I’m talking fighting over Polly pockets and battling over boys. But no matter how many hissy fits we’d pitch, sulky faces we’d pull and “I’m not talking to you’s” we’d throw at each other, we’d always kiss and make-up…in a matter of hours!

 

Thank you for being my partner-in-crime, my therapist, my concert companion, my telepathic pal, my gossip girl, my personal life coach, my dancing partner and so much more. Thank you for all the glorious memories, wrapped up in a bow of nostalgia, so beautiful it brings a tear to my eye. Thank you for the times when we laughed so hard we cried, the times we danced like no one was watching, the times we talked until the cows came home, milked into a thousand saucers, and said ‘Heck with this, I’m going to bed!’.

And no matter how much distance is between us now, no matter how many days, weeks and months we haven’t spoken to each other, we ALWAYS pick up where we left.

 

My beautiful best friend, what more can I say? 50 years from now, I hope I will still be cushioned under your protective wing. I have no doubt that you will still be the person who could turn my every frown into a smile, the person who lifts me up when I am losing faith and the person who carries my tears on her shoulders. I’m pretty sure that we will still be busting out those same dance moves, watching Romy and Michelle on repeat and laughing until our catheter bags burst!

When pulling an “all-nighter” means getting up to pee, “getting lucky” means winning the bingo and the candles cost more than the cake, I promise we will still be the best of friends!

JGO, I will love you always. I mean it.

 

Brittany (aka. Breezy, Lucy and Nigel)

What Draco Taught Me…

about life…

Dogs. Some people love them and others hate them. Whether you classify yourself as a dog or cat person there’s plenty to take away from this post about what we can learn from the animals in our lives. Personally, I think humans should strive to be the type of person their pet thinks they are because the world would be a better place for sure! I know for a fact my life has changed and been enriched from Draco being apart of it. To prove it, I’ve created a list of 3 things my fur-baby has taught me about life.

1. Unconditional Love– No matter what mood I come home in or how many times I yell at him to stop jumping on our house guests, Draco loves me. He is always 100% hyped to spend time with Tom and I (he absolutely hates being left behind whether we go to work or out to dinner) and he is the first to greet us with a wagging tail not to mention a sloppy kiss. Animals don’t judge your messy hair, runny mascara from crying after a rough day, and problems concerning the outside world. They are unconditionally there for you to vent to, laugh/play with, sob on their soft coat and snuggle with. Animals sadly get abandoned by their owners each day but your animal will NEVER abandon you. Draco taught me that the humans in our lives deserve the same type of unconditional love, in a world where everything from family relationships to friendships are disposable, we can stand to learn a lot about how to treat others from the way our animals treat us with patience, deep unconditional love and respect.

2. Responsibility – Draco was literally the first living, breathing creature Tom and I have kept alive, happy, and healthy for the last two years. Let that sink in. I remember bringing home this tiny little puppy on my lap thinking, “holy hat, this is all me…this helpless animal will rely on us for the rest of his life.” Draco requires regular yearly vet check ups, attention, exercise, and a specific diet to keep him at his best. Prior to bringing him home, both Tom and I had experience caring for the family dogs we had with our parents and siblings but after bringing Draco home I feel like I have a greater sense of responsibility, whether we’re out with friends for a night on the town or at a wedding/family event animals help their owners be less selfish because you have them to think of. Gone are the days we can spend an impromptu weekend trip to AC because we have Draco to consider, but we’re strangely okay with that!

3. Appreciation for the little things in life – Draco gets excitement from the little things in life, like walking down to the dock to sit and watch the sunset with me. He also enjoys running around the yard and going on outings with his best friend, Rafe (My best friend Jen’s Australian Sheppard). He doesn’t wish for more money, fame, a bigger house or a nicer car. He asks only for time each day with the people who matter most to him and at the end of the day, while it’s easy to get caught up in day-to-day life, animals can remind what it’s like to be young without the weight of the world on our shoulders and in turn appreciate the little things in life we often overlook.

While there are so many more lesson animals can teach us, I feel that these three are the most important to touch upon. I will end this post with a thank you to my Draco, for making me a better person, friend, and dog mom. What three things have your animals taught you? Leave a comment below discussing what ways your life was more enriched by your animals, I love hearing from all of you!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo

My Top 10 New Jersey Restaurants…

For locals and visitor’s alike….

Food, it’s one of the many things you remember whether you’re going to an event (like a wedding or shower) or on vacation. It’s a factor in determining if you want to return or try someplace else. Let’s be real, your food and restaurant experiences shape you as something that stands out as either really good or really bad. To spare you the less than grand restaurant experience whether you’re visiting or live in the Jersey Shore area here are Tom and I’s top 10 restaurant choices that are guaranteed to leave you not disappointed-just please don’t fist pump, real locals aren’t like the characters (most actually from NY) you’ve seen on TV and get quite insulted at being compared to them.

Rating Breakdown:
$ = scale of 1-5 ($$$$$ being most expensive; $ being least expensive)
* = Overall food and service (***** being the best; * being the worst)

1. The Office Lounge- Tom and I began going to this diamond in the rough in 2010, there’s a wide variety of choices on the menu that suitable for even the most picky of taste buds. The service is superb, in fact most of the waiters and waitresses knew my husband and I by name-the only thing that beats the service is their delicious food!
Rating: * *  * * *
Price Rating: $$$
Overall Grade: -A
Dishes We’d Recommend: Quesadillas, Prime Ribs, French Onion Soup and Pina Coladas
Check out their menu and more here: http://www.theofficelounge.net/index.htm

2. Burger 25– Tom and I stumbled upon this place on the way to the boardwalk, it’s not your typical burger joint as there’s literally 25 different ways you can order your burger from the Philly Burger which is like a Philly cheese steak on top of your burger to the Mac Daddy a burger with mac and cheese on top of it and each one is out of this world delicious. It’s not just burgers though-Burger 25 has equally delicious chicken, hot dogs, salads, wings and sides, it’s actually quite overwhelming. Burger 25’s only downfall is the space available to sit as it gets quite busy in the quaint restaurant.
Rating: * * * * *
Price Rating: $$$
Overall Grade: -A
Dishes We’d Recommend: The Philly Burger, Bacon Cheese Burger, Oreo Shake and chocolate shake.
Check out their menu and more here: http://burger25.com/menu.html

3. Chili’s Bar and Grill– What can I say? Before Tom and I found the Office Lounge Chili’s was our main squeeze. Chili’s has a wide variety of appetizers, salads, soups, chili, fresh Mex bowls, fajitas, enchiladas, burritos, tacos and quesadillas, ribs, chicken and steak just to name a few. The food and service are good and worth the sometimes overcrowded dinner time rushes.
Rating: * * * *
Price Rating: $$$$
Overall Grade: B+
Dishes we’d recommend: two words. Sillet Queso.
Check out their menu and more here: http://www.chilis.com/EN/Pages/menu.aspx

4. El Familiar (Latin Food)- If Mexican food and Columbian food got married and had a baby this place would be it. El Familiar takes traditionalism and authenticity very seriously and offers top-notch food, service and atmosphere.
Rating: * * * * *
Price Rating: $$$$
Overall Grade: A
Dishes we’d recommend: chimichangas and steak.
Check out their menu and more here: http://elfamiliar.com/menu/

5. Applebee’s Neighborhood Bar and Grill– A wide variety of choices for even the most pickier of eaters. I am a huge fan of Applebee’s because of the family friendly atmosphere and friendly/accommodating  service.
Rating: * * * * *
Price Rating: $$$
Overall Grade: A
Dishes we’d recommend: We’ve had mostly everything BUT we highly recommend the Ribs and the Chicken Quesadilla with a side of Mexi-Rice .
Check out their menu and more here: http://www.applebees.com/menu

7. Bubbakoo’s Burritos (American Style Mexican)- What’s not to love about building your own burrito? It’s like Chipotle but better! The staff is exceptionally welcoming and accommodating-not to mention the food is fresh and delicious!
Rating: * * * * *
Price Rating: $$
Overall Grade: A+
Dishes we’d recommend: The double beef and pulled pork burritos.
Check out their menu and more here:  http://www.bubbakoos.com/our-menu.html

8. Il Giardinello (Italian Food)- My childhood best guy friend, Mike, used to work here and smuggle us home left overs from the kitchen when he worked there. If you want to send your taste buds on an authentic trip to Italy you can’t visit the Jersey Shore without a trip to Il Giardinello! The staff is exceptionally diligent and the food is to die for. The only complaint I have regarding this restaurant is the price (which is a bit on the expensive side) but the food is well worth it!
Rating: * * * * *
Price Rating: $$$$$
Overall Grade: B+ (sorry the prices impact the grade!)
Dishes we’d recommend: Penne Vodka and Veal Parmigiano.
Check out their menu and more here: http://www.ilgiardinosulmare.com/menu.html

9. Ikko (Japanese Restaurant)- My brother-in-law, Mike, is a huge fan of Hibachi, which is why it was no surprise that he introduced Tom and I to this place back to 2011. Everything from the chicken to the steak is absolutely delicious and the chefs really put on an excellent show for kids of all ages.
Rating: * * * *
Price Rating: $$$$$
Overall Grade: B-
Dishes we’d recommend: Anything off the Hibachi menu!
Check out their menu and more here: http://www.allmenus.com/nj/brick/27478-ikko/menu/

10. Harvest Buffet (Chinese Buffet)- Tom and I found this hidden gold mine back in 2014 when we moved down to the area. They offer a wide variety of Chinese and American food buffet and offer lunch specials daily! The best part is the food and service are great and it’s never too packed so you’ll always get seated quickly.
Rating: * * * *
Price Rating: $$
Overall Grade: B
Dishes we’d recommend: All of it! Come hungry and leave satisfied!
Check out their menu and more here: http://harvestbuffetnj.com/menu.asp

Are there any restaurants I missed that you enjoy? Leave a comment below or let’s chat about it on Twitter, I love hearing from you!

Love you. Mean it.

Brittany

xoxo